Your comment was problematic.
Your comment was problematic. That doesn't necessarily mean you're a bad person, but refusing to acknowledge issues with your comment is just going to set yourself and others up for failure if you continue to drag your heals on this and say "that's not my intent and i'm not gonna talk about it anymore". You don't have to reply to me but please do think about it, ask yourself why these people think that your comment was so problematic and maybe just try to get it.