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AITA for Letting my Female Friend Live with me RENT FREE?

    NTA: her butthole your rules
    Title pretty much says it all. What do you good bros of reddit think - AITA?
    
    She (25 f) is being very ungrateful and hostile even though I (29 M) am letting her live with me RENT FREE since she lost her job. She worked with me at the Verizon store but has since then started doing cam work, reading feminist literature, and following religious blogs. She's also on Instagram a lot, and I saw her watching Gilmore Girls on her iphone XR the other day. I think one or all of these media are influencing her to feel entitled even though I'm letting her stay here stay RENT FREE.
    
    Edit 1: Thanks for the gold kind stranger!
    
    Edit 2: Wow 10k updoots. This is my highest updooted post now.
    
    Edit 3: Thanks guys. I can't see what I did wrong either. She's just really entitled, I think.
    
    Edit 4: A few of you asked for a bit more context. NO, there is no "intermediate cause and effect sequence" between when I allowed her to stay vs when she became ungrateful. I let her live with me RENT FREE, she started watching Gilmore Girls, and now she's claiming I'm the asshole. There's nothing else to say.
    
    Edit 6: Thanks for the platinum kind stranger!
    
    Edit 7: No, I didn't ask why she's upset. I'm letting her live with me RENT FREE and I don't owe her anything.. She's just entitled as many younger women are.
    
    Edit 8: No, nothing could have "set her off" or "alarmed" her. I'm really quiet and she's a heavy sleeper.
    
    Edit 9: Bros I don't know what to do she's leaving oh god.
    
    Edit 10: Sorry, the last edit should have been Edit 9.
    
    Edit 11: Wait I forgot I could change the edit numbers in an edit.
    
    Edit 12: Ignore the last two edits.
    
    Edit 13: Wait ignore that last edit and this one too.
    
    Edit 14: I tried telling her Reddit said I'm not the asshole she's still going away bros this is so scary.
    
    Edit 15: Okay so AGAIN, she's a really heavy sleeper so I don’t know what could have triggered her :( Only thing that comes to mind is about a week ago when I asked if I could sniff her asshole after she relieved herself, but nothing that would explain why she'd be ungrateful since I'm letting her live here RENT FREE.
    
    Edit 16: wow 20K updoots